Foul Language

Foul Language
Lately I have been studying Ephesians 4. It is full of wisdom... although most of the time I just read through and don't chew on the words. This time I took notes. There was a lot to be gleaned from the chapter. I thought that verse 29 which speaks of not using foul language was relatively easy for me. Upon closer inspection it says to not use foul language (use only words that are beneficial to the spiritual progress of others, as is fitting to the need and the occasion, that it may be a blessing and give grace [God's favor] to those who hear it.)This is harder than not cussing. The reading goes on: "Do not grieve the Holy Spirit." I think this may be connected with the last paragraph because it goes on to say..."Let all bitterness and indignation and wrath - (Passion, rage, bad temper) and resentment - (anger animosity) and quarreling (brawling, clamor, contention) and slander (evil-speaking, abusive or blasphemous language) be banished from you, with all malice (spite, ill will, or baseness of any kind) stop.Replace this "foul language" with: Becoming useful, helpful, kind, tenderhearted, forgiving just as God in Christ forgave you and me.Wow, that is a taller order than just cleaning up my language. This instruction is a change of mind and attitude. It is a change of life and perspective. It is truly living the golden rule - treating others as you want to be treated. (FYI -This is not a promise that they will treat you good back.) I must repent for using "foul language" as I see the measuring stick the Lord uses. I pledge to endeavor to live by this verse.